Pregnant and confused

Dear C&F:
I just found out I'm pregnant by my recent ex. He's accepted responsibility for fathering the child and has agreed to support me through delivery. What he's not cool with is that my current beau wants to go to doctor appointments with me. So does my ex. This already has made for some awkward moments.
What do you advise?
Sign me: Pregnant and confused.

Chad says:
I recommmend a DNA test first. If it turns out the ex truly is the father, work out a shared physician visitation deal. He goes to half the appointments, the beau goes to the other half. Of course, if I was the new beau, I'd update my eHarmony.com profile.